The Long and Winding Road

"IML and Beyond"


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ROAD TRIP - Spring '98
IML-20 - CHICAGO
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We ran into Ms. Stacey who is the most recent Ms. National Leather Association. (NLA is the pan-sexual Leather Organization.) They hold their own contest. Anyway, Stacey (who is a psychologist living in Brooklyn) told us that Mr. Holland Leather was having a welcome in his hotel room which included his mother and sister in support. Mr. Holland is an African-American man holding duel citizenship. We said we’d try to make it. But the afternoon had grown late so we decided to eat with Kelly in the restaurant of the Blackstone Hotel just south of our host hotel. It was a good choice in both food and price.

Our next event was the meet and greet of the 62 contestants in this years line-up being held at the hotel. We sat in the front row with our cameras to get a first hand view of each man as he was introduced. We had several friends who were actually in the competition and they were glad to see their supporters in the sea of press and visitors. Each man drew his position number from a barrel as he walked across the stage to introduce himself. A stagefull of past title holders was presented in celebration of IML’s 20th anniversary. Oooh, Daddy!

After the event we circulated through the lobby, which is the traditional past time during IML and then we jumped on the IML shuttle bus which goes out to the leather bars and clubs. What we did was to use it to sneak a ride home since our host lives walking distance from the Cell Block club. Comfy, cozy and ‘very’ friendly.

Saturday was the big day of the weekend for us. rodtney had to be at the Leatherneck bar by noon for the pre-judging of the Mr. Ebony in Leather Contest which was to begin at 2pm. We took the train downtown and Master Ross sat at the bar having wonderful visit with the co-emcee for the day, Queen Cougar is newly married to both Jill Carter and Viola Johnson who themselves have been together for over twenty-five years! Our conversation was great fun and we were joined by the co-emcee, Mr. Vern Stuart and the producer of the event, Cain Berlinger. All the while the interview portion of the contest was taking place in private session upstairs in the dungeon area of the bar. Judges included Jill Carter, rodtney ross, Ann Marie Meek, Producer of the International Ms Leather Contest, Head Judge Master Steve Sampson, owner of Butchmann’s Training Academy in Palm Springs and David Rhodes, Publisher of the Leather Journal. Quite an impressive panel of judges. Oh yes, and Davien O Nelson, the outgoing Mr. Ebony was too late to judge but right on time to hand over the title. Actually his title ended when Davian left San Francisco for New York City. So much for loyalty and responsibility. We wish him well however. The Mr. Ebony in Leather title is now a National honor.

There were only two candidates for the first (Inter)national Mister Ebony in Leather: André Marcials from D.C. and Wayne Nesbitt from Chicago (not to be confused with Mr. Wayne Nesbit who is Mr. D.C. Eagle 1997-98). André, who was born in Trinidad, won easily, and hopefully will bring much needed honor to the title. The place was packed and everyone seemed to have a good time. Maybe next year there will be a bigger venue - and more bonified contestants.

[Just a note on the owner of the Leatherneck. His name is John Birch or ‘jeb’. He’s retired Military and heir to a nice income. A few years ago he started a publication called Metropolitan slave. This year he sold it and ran for the Illinois State Legislature on the Republican ticket. We were present during our visit this year when he gave a nice check to the Leather Archives which is also in Chicago. jeb is a nice man - even a bit crazy which is part of his charm.. He also hosted us last July when we drove through town. He is also 1994 International Master.]

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Judging the contest was a great experience for rodtney. He became instantly elevated in the company of Leather Community greats The judging process includes pre-contest interviews with the candidates as well as the on-stage presentations. The Olympic Scoring System is used during the tally. I am extremely proud of my boi’s accomplishments during his first two years as a full-fledged Leatherman.

After the event we hailed a cab back to the Congress Hotel with Ann Marie and her family. We wanted to attend the M.A.s.T. Cocktail Party being hosted by Jack Rinella and Tom Stice. Jack was a contestant this year representing M.A.s.T. and also as Mr. Internet Leather and would like to see an IML from the home town. It would be a first on the 20th anniversary. (I do not know the details of how Jack got this title.). He also writes a leather column for a Chicago paper. It’s also mailed out privately every Monday on the internet for a nominal fee. Jack has a former wife, and a daughter in college. He has a live-in slave and they live in Jack’s Master’s townhouse. Jack also has a Lover who lives in the burbs. He pulls all of this off with a matter-of-fact finesse and 'still' can be seen on the prowl some nights at the Cell Block where his slave tends bar. Whew! I tell you about this because it's so unbelievable.

Tom Stice is from Atlanta and is the 1884 International slave. The party is super and we are greeted by all sorts of friends, known and unknown. We also run into some of the men who attended the Master/slave seminar we did as guest trainers last November with Mr. Rinella at Butchmann’s Academy in Palm Springs.

[Master/slave is a very small subset of the greater LeatherFetish community. Here’s my formula: 10% of the mainstream population is Gay/Lesbian. 10% of those are Leather/Fetish. 10% of those are into Master/slave and 10% of those are actual 24/7 couples and maybe 10% of those are monogamous. Next, in rodtney’s case, 10% are African American but only 1/3 are middle class. Now divide by ½ for Men and Women. Take another 1/3 for youth and another 1/3 for elderly and the numbers get pretty small. rodtney is perhaps one of a dozen or so like himself in all the world perhaps. So I have truly found my needle in a haystack. For us it’s all very Spiritual.]

During the gathering we run into the current International Master and slave, Roger & bill from Atlanta. We received wonderful Southern hospitality from them during our travels last summer. They informed us that they were now the proud fourth owners of the IMAsT contest having received it from our friends Bob Fifield and joe Coloff, who now live in San Francisco. They were ‘Hot-Lanta’ on-it promoting the next contest to be held, where else? - Atlanta, in the spring of ‘99.

Maybe we’ll be there. Whew, another trip cross-country! Maybe we’ll just stay for awhile out on Lake Lanier - or over at ‘River’s Edge’, the wonderful 66 acre gay campground out in Dewy Rose, Gerogia owned by our salt and pepper friends, Terry and Tim. The Leather Circuit can be exhausting. That’s one of the reasons why we don’t go to the bars much anymore. boi took bunches of pictures which you’ll see when he gets them on-line.

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